In part 1 of this article, I showed you what “Girl Speak” was and how I avoided it’s trap. In this part, I’ll teach you to avoid it yourself.

If I had taken the “Girl Speak” from the first part of this article seriously, I wouldn’t have gotten another meeting with the girls.

But I know the key to by-passing the most common “Girl Speak” objections.

You know the ones…

“I only like guys with great bodies.”

“A guy who wants to take me out needs to have a nice car.”

“I want a tall man.”

“I want a guy my own age.”

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Sometimes, a woman will say one thing, but it’s later revealed that she meant something completely different.

What is going on with that, anyhow?

Here’s an example - the woman who says she’ll only date someone taller than her.

And then, the next guy you see her out on a date with is about a foot shorter than she is.

Sometimes a woman will say she prefers to be taken out to dinner and a movie.

And then, she tells you the best date she ever had was when a guy took her on a walk on the beach.

Sometimes the woman says she’s looking for a guy with a nice, steady job who can provide for her.

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Is your dating not going the way you might like? Experiencing some dating challenges? Not achieving the results you’d hoped for? Perhaps you need some motivation to get you back in the market?

Here are 5 quick and easy relationship tips to follow that will get you results and finding the right relationship in no time.

1. First tip is if you don’t immdediate success with your dates, don’t get frustrated. Keep in mind there are millions of girls but only a few that are compatible with you. Dating is like screening. Understand that you will probably be dating a number of different women until you find one that’s truly right for you.

2. Focus on keeping the conversation upbeat and alive, and don’t be tempted to talk about yourself the entire time, even though you (like many people) may feel comfortable doing this. A serious survey was done whose results showed that people are most interested in those that ask about them, so learn from this - ask questions! Not prying questions; sincere ones that show you are interested in them. Be interested (really interested) in what the subject is. Control the conversation by keeping it fun, light and interesting. If you’re really interested in your date, try to avoid divulging how much you want a relationship. Just make it clear that they are “great company” and let them know you are eager to see them more.

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From time to time, you might find a woman that you hit it off with, but you aren’t really wanting to commit to. So you stay friends, while still being intimate.

It can become a problem though, if the girl is insistent upon turning it into more than that. She might try to suck you into a relationship. To prevent this, you need to lay some ground rules.

Here are some tips for keeping the “Friends With Benefits” alive and well, for as long as possible.

1.No spending the night.

Letting her spend the night, or spending the night at her place sends the wrong message! It communicates a desire to settle down. If you can, keep the encounters at her place, and then leave. It’s much nicer than kicking her out of your place.

2. Keep cuddling to a minimum!

Doing a lot of intimate stuff is going to create an emotional desire for more. Avoid this! You want to keep things physical rather than emotional. Fifteen minutes of cuddling is the max I would recommend. But displays of affection is generally discouraged.

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I have to admit, I’ve been dumped by women several times. More times than I’d like to admit. And while it hurt every time, I have to say that I have learned a lot from those experiences. So here are those things I’ve learned.

1. There are two in every relationship

Often with the pain and heartbreak of a break up, it is easy to blame someone else but nto yourself. However the truth is that if the relationship wasn’t working, you were part of the problem too. Take a look at what went wrong so that you can use the lessons for your next relationship.

2. Give her some space

Women like to cuddle and snuggle and they may seem to be always around, but they need their personal space as well. We men have a tendency to be possessive, we want to keep our women close and know where they’re going and what they’re doing. If any woman has ever cheated on you, this instinct becomes even stronger. However trust is a key in any relationship. When you invade her personal space, you give her a reason to think that you don’t trust her. Your girlfriend can live up to your fears and this can easily lead to the end of your relationship.

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It’s truly unfortunate that everyone, at one point in time, has felt unattractive. Reasons may vary, but it’s a sad fact that even the most beautiful woman has finds flaws about themselves that made them feel ugly.

Men do this, and it isn’t helped by their visual nature. We end up critical of our own appearance, just as much as women.

Maybe it’s the fact that we are too short, or fat, or bald, or old? There are any number of factors that make us feel “unworthy” of the attentions of beautiful women.

But if that was the case - no one would ever be able to attract a woman at all!

In fact, the next time you’re out, take a mental note of every guy you see with an attractive girl, and try and appraise whether or not you think that guy’s looks are worthy of the girl he’s with.

Sure, sometimes you’ll find a guy who’s with a girl and they are both fine credits to their species. But most of the time, what you’ll find is the guys with really hot and appealing women range from “average” to “ugly” in the looks department.

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The more conflict there is in your marriage, the less love and intimacy you begin to feel. Continuing conflict obviously can lead to divorce. So it is worthwhile to learn to deal with conflict in a healthy manner. You can take classes and read books and watch videos to help you reduce the conflict and the pain it causes to your marriage.

You really can improve the quality of your marriage by learning how to deal with conflict in positive rather than negative ways. It is worth paying attention to. However, is there a way to stop conflict before it ever begins? Is there a way to stop fighting at the source?

There is a way to do this that is powerful, effective, and you dont need to take a class on conflict to do it. Even better, you can put it to use in your marriage to minimize conflict starting just minutes after you finish this article. This method is a secret that almost no one talks about. Are you ready? A remarkable way to stop conflict before it begins is to PLAY MORE with your mate.

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Have you ever wondered why some people are fit to have succeeder in dating and relationships, while others struggle and inquire if love will ever come their way? The answer could be found in understanding Love Rules.

The three most most-valuable Love Rules to remember are: Stop, Feel, and Listen.

Stop
Stop concentre on what you don’t have and get what you do have into view. You have attributes, gifts, and powers particular to you. Think about what they are and showcase them. The same goes for your visual aspect. Raise and appreciate your good characteristics, polish up what you have, and let go of any inner critical points out that pass negative judgment on you.
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